Monthly Archives: May 2013

Why Men Find Vulnerabililty Attractive When They’re Having Sex and How Both Men and Women Can Inspire Each Other to Have More Passionate Sex

The biggest secret about why men find vulnerability attractive in the bedroom is, guess what, they need women to inspire them to show their deeper feelings so they can feel safer with them. But it’s hard for men to be emotionally vulnerable even though, deep down, they wish to be. Most men grow up believing […]

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Why Men Hide Their Vulnerability Differently Than Women.

One of the most important insights shared by Brene Brown in her TED talk on shame and vulnerability is about how shame in our culture is organized by gender. For women it’s about cultural norms that dictate they should be: Nice Thin Modest, and Use all available resources for appearance It’s about unattainable, conflicting expectations […]

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Good and Bad Fights for Couples

A good fight always ends with improved understanding. The two angry lovers reach a turning point, a moment when they touch each others hearts, tenderly. A bad fight never gets to this moment. It drags on and on until the lovers give up in complete despair. A bad fight is always ignited by feelings of […]

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Reverie

  Fresh from her afternoon nap, She’d sit at the dining table, Grading her children’s work books, Preparing the next day’s lesson. I’d sneak looks at her from the solitary sofa, Bewildered, wondering at her simplicity, As she worked the children’s papers, Anastasia purring sweetly on her knees. It eluded me how she attained such […]

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Woodbury Commons

  She startles me in the fitting room with Levi’s shirts. Long sleeved ones meant for you, she tells me, with a wink and a well-meaning grin as I frown. I model each to please her, all four of them: A green khaki cotton with clouded silver buttons, A dark somber blue that perfectly matches […]

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