Category Archives: Marriage Counselors

Affairs Can be an Opportunity, albeit a painful one, Instead of a Setback

The key question is always: Why are you or your lover having the affair? The person having the affair is usually looking for a level of intimacy, novelty, feeling desirble, a feeling of being alive again. It’s absolutely crucial for the betrayed lover to shift from being the investigator of the hows and whens of […]

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Understanding Your Lover’s Biological Temperament Can Soften Misunderstandings and Conflicts

In the three years they’ve been together as lovers Seth and Brenda sometimes drive each other up the wall.      “We lead separate lives,” she tells him. When you want to party, I never feel you want to introduce me to your friends, show them I’m your girl. Like she’s real. She exists. Its like […]

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Two Vital Things You Need to Get in Your First Meeting with a Couples Therapist

DISCOVER THE HURT BENEATH THE PUNCH It’s absolutely critical that the couples therapist helps you to re-frame your arguments. Every couple fights differently and most of the time what they’re fighting about isn’t the real argument. Some deeper hurt or frustration usually gets triggered by the way they express themselves if something is bothering them. […]

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Stuck in a Rut in Couples Therapy? Catch Our Buzz on BuzzFeed

What If Couples Therapy Isn’t Working?   Watch Our VIDEO on BuzzFeed.                  

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Do Cultural Norms Dictate who Initiates Couples Therapy?

Yes!  But don’t get confused by who makes the first call. It’s the different reasons men and women give for making the first call. Watch our thought provoking five minute video for insights in answering this question. Four Yourtango experts discuss how to deal with resistance to couples therapy   

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