Communicate Openly And Truthfully.
André Anthony Moore, LMFT
Licensed Relationship Restoration NYC (New York State License: 001435)
Ketamine and Psychedelic Assisted Therapist certified by The Integrative Psychiatry Institute
Couples Counseling in New York City
I use creative metaphors from film, music, and literature to embolden couples to bring Five Compassions, described by Gabor Mate in The Myth of Normal, to their everyday lives:
Ordinary Human Compassion
Compassion of Curiosity
Compassion of Recognition
Compassion of Truth
Compassion of Possibility
Here’s how I applied the Five Compassions in a face-to-face session with a couple who felt confused and trapped by their everyday patterns, uncovering the subtle, yet deeply impactful, ways they were unintentionally hurting each other.
My job was to Sense and Then Show them the Raw Spots they were Triggering in Each Other in Person.
Listening Beyond Words in Couples Therapy
I first focused on their non-verbal tells and how their feelings got played out in their bodies. There’ve been countless times when I meet with a couple that the sadness in their eyes, the pain and stress in their faces tell me a deeper, more agonizing story than the words coming out of their mouths.
Creating Space to Truly Feel
I was curious and gentle. I encouraged them to slow down and feel what’s going on in their bodies. I reminded them that words are the least important way we have of expressing our deepest, most painful feelings. I also encouraged – even challenged them – to imagine what the other must be feeling and going through, without necessarily agreeing with it.
Teaching Through Compassion
I took every opportunity to apply Gabor Mate’s Five Compassions in relating and responding to them with my openness and curiosity, my respectful tone of voice, and the softness in my eyes. I tried to model with my own behavior how they might be more tender and compassionate with each other.
The role of a therapist in any form of psychotherapy is to reflect to you, much like a “good enough” parent, who you truly are as you explore the hidden, often unfathomable parts of yourself and your partner. By committing to be fully present with you, the therapist helps you uncover, in the words of Leonard Cohen, “The Beauty Lost to You Yourself.”
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At our practice, Relationship Restoration NYC a safe and supportive space for partners to reconnect and grow together. We help you open your hearts to one another in ways that foster deeper understanding and lasting intimacy.
Our therapists use proven relationship-building tools such as The Couples Dialogue, Creative Role-Playing, The Five Love Languages, Turning Conflict into Connection, and even creative approaches like Poems to Love Smarter. These techniques are designed to help couples cope more effectively with the everyday challenges of stress, frustration, anxiety, and depression.
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy in New York City
At Relationship Restoration NYC in New York City, we also use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to guide couples through seven key conversations, as outlined by Dr. Sue Johnson in Hold Me Tight . These conversations are essential for building emotional intimacy and fostering a strong, lasting connection in long-term relationships.
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At Relationship Restoration NYC in New York City, we also use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to guide couples through seven key conversations, as outlined by Dr. Sue Johnson in Hold Me Tight . These conversations are essential for building emotional intimacy and fostering a strong, lasting connection in long-term relationships.
André Anthony Moore, LMFT
Licensed Relationship Restoration Therapist (New York State License: 001435)
Ketamine and Psychedelic Assisted Therapist certified by The Integrative Psychiatry Institute
Practitioner of Eye Movement, Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Use Nonverbal Sensorimotor Techniques to deepen Emotionally Focused Therapy
Transform Your Relationship with Expert Marriage Couples Relationship Restoration NYC
At Relationship Restoration NYC in New York City, we help couples strengthen emotional intimacy, navigate life transitions, and build lasting connections. Through in-person couples therapy sessions, our experienced therapists guide you with proven techniques like Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Couples Dialogue, The Five Love Languages, and more.
Our goal is to help you uncover hidden patterns, improve communication, and foster a deeper connection and understanding of each other, so you can experience a more fulfilling, joyful, and resilient partnership.
Don’t wait for challenges to escalate. Schedule a session with us now and start building a stronger, healthier, and more connected relationship.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can marriage counseling really save our relationship?
Marriage counseling can significantly improve communication, rebuild trust, and help partners understand each other more deeply. While success depends on the willingness of both partners to engage in the process, many couples find counseling to be a turning point toward a stronger and healthier relationship.
Q. Do I need to see a trained marriage counselor, or will any therapist do?
It is best to choose a counselor with specific training and experience in couples counseling. Relationship dynamics differ greatly from individual therapy, and a trained counselor can offer tailored strategies that address both partners’ needs effectively.
Q. How is relationship therapy different from individual therapy?
Individual therapy focuses on personal thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, while couples counseling or relationship therapy addresses the patterns and interactions between two people. The goal is to improve the relationship as a whole rather than focusing on just one partner.
Q. How soon will we notice changes through counseling?
Every couple’s situation is unique. Some couples notice positive changes within a few sessions, while others may take longer, depending on the complexity of the issues. Consistency and openness during the process often speed up progress.
Q. How quickly can we begin sessions with Good Relationships?
We make it a priority to schedule couples as soon as possible. In many cases, you can begin your relationship counseling sessions within a week, depending on availability.
Q. If individual therapy didn’t help, should I still consider couples counseling?
Yes. Individual therapy addresses personal challenges, but it may not resolve the relational patterns that cause conflict. Couples counseling focuses directly on your interactions, communication, and shared goals, which can lead to more effective change.
Q. How often should we attend counseling sessions?
Weekly sessions provide the most momentum, especially at the start. However, some couples prefer bi-weekly appointments. Your counselor will help you decide on a frequency that best suits your situation and progress.
Q. Can a relationship survive infidelity?
Yes, many couples do recover after an affair with the right support. Counseling provides a safe space to address the breach of trust, process difficult emotions, and work toward rebuilding the relationship if both partners are committed.
Q. What types of issues can we work on in marriage counseling?
Counseling can help with communication challenges, trust issues, intimacy concerns, conflict resolution, parenting differences, financial stress, and more. The focus is tailored to your unique relationship needs.
Q. What if my partner is reluctant to attend counseling?
It’s common for one partner to be hesitant. Often, attending even a few sessions helps them feel more comfortable. In some cases, starting with individual sessions can encourage a reluctant partner to join later.
Q. Is marriage counseling only for couples experiencing relationship issues or going through a crisis?
No, marriage counseling is not only for couples in crisis. Many partners choose counseling to strengthen their bond, improve communication, or prepare for major life transitions such as marriage (pre-marriage counseling), parenthood, or retirement. It can be just as helpful for maintaining a healthy relationship as it is for resolving conflicts.
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